We all know that each of us has been created unique and one of a kind. Yet, honestly, do we accept each person as they are? Of course, our social system expects each of us to behave in a certain way. But even in man to man relationships, we are not ready to accept the unique traits and character of a person. We expect them to behave a certain way, of which they might not be even remotely aware of. This expectation often ends up in disappointment. There is the story of crows driving away the white crow, who is the odd one out. People have this narrow concept of how he or she should be. I feel they are actually scared of a person who is different.
I find it hard to be part of a close knit group, where you do everything together. I love companionship but I am not ready to sacrifice my privacy or space. Those times I spent with myself are the happiest for me, when I get completely energized. I believe that a person must be comfortable with himself, first and then try to befriend others. Well, if you can’t love yourself, then who will. Of course, there are times when I love the group feel but not 24 x 7.
If you truly love a person, u must not encroach upon that hidden bubble, which we all have. I have some real close buddies whom I can never do without. Each of us know we love each other to life. But that does not mean that we call each other everyday or keep track of all our life’s happenings. Life has scattered us into different corners and we get to see each other rarely. Yet time and distance does nothing to our bond. If I have a serious issue, I don’t think twice about whom to call. If I say something, there is no why and ‘how could you’, but just understanding murmurs or comforting words. I pray and hope they remain with me till my life’s end. I could never thank God enough for them.
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i can leave comments rite... really like your thoughts and i agree with everything in it except the last part where u said "time and distance does nothing to our bond"...how do u do that..u hav some amazing thing going on there..i really regret that it is not so for me..Time and distance changes everything for me...hope it wont be like that between us..
hey 'jene', hehe. So nice to get a comment.glad you like it.I feel shy to show others.Bonds will stay dear,but with some friends you will have to take the effort cos most people are bad at maintaining friendships.Now, in our college life its ok,but later it seems we will miss these friendships a lot.Of course dear,we will be in touch :). and do start blogging!!!
hey pappsss...dat was an awesome post..yes, i do believe most of the things u said..sometimes these relationships are so strange, we never know how or why ppl end up being frnds, may be they wer meant to be..everything happens for a reason and we are always unaware of it..may be there is a reason why v r frnds..hope dat reason remains forever n so does our friendship...:)
hey chalchalu, thank you.so nice to get comments.Yo dear, we will always have each other
beautiful post :) n i agree wid a lot of things u said.. u gotta b comfortabl wid urself first..
thank you dear.N go check out chaluz blog.Also you don't be idle k :)
Very nice one...:-)
i know appoosse... some bonds seldom change... and i am glad we have found people who dont expect us to change for them as well.... love!
thank you "tanhayi" :)
and anon....i can't see your profile,and i dint get who you are.sorry, if it sounds rude.
Beautiful Blog, good topic, interpersonal relations are tricky. All individuals are selfish they will give you anything buttt Lol. Basically we all want the same thing from each other a little attention, some recognition, some appreciation, some people need lots of the above naa? But how much are they willing to give? Then there are creeps who want power and control. I should think that decency is a trait that i would prefer in a person, otherwise Im my best friend.
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